Before you know what kindness really is
you must lose things,
feel the future dissolve in a moment
like salt in a weakened broth.
What you held in your hand,
what you counted and carefully saved,
all this must go so you know
how desolate the landscape can be
between the regions of kindness.
How you ride and ride
thinking the bus will never stop,
the passengers eating maize and chicken
will stare out the window forever.
Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho
lies dead by the side of the road.
You must see how this could be you,
how he too was someone
who journeyed through the night with plans
and the simple breath that kept him alive.
Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.
You must wake up with sorrow.
You must speak to it till your voice
catches the thread of all sorrows
and you see the size of the cloth.
Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,
only kindness that ties your shoes
and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread,
only kindness that raises its head
from the crowd of the world to say
It is I you have been looking for,
and then goes with you everywhere
like a shadow or a friend.
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That is an often used phrase. So why is that? How is it that an image can be so powerful? Because we use only about ten percent of our brain power to process data, and to analyze. The subconscious mind and the other parts of our brain operate using emotions, pictures, stories, metaphors and images and connects and processes information at a much faster speed. Some times this manifests as an intuitive sense in our “gut feeling” or a swelling of particular emotions after seeing an image or seeing some one. Often times we are not paying attention to all of the images that we are exposed to on a daily basis that end up in our mind.
This is the reason that they say our first impressions of some one is so strong and lasting, and it is often made quickly with little verbal information mostly through the use of non verbal cues and often stays with us. Start noticing your first impression messages that you hear when you first meet some one.
Thus the importance of images and symbols to represent groups, cultures, religions, etc. The media and advertisers understand the power of the image or logos better than most, when they use images and logos as marketing tools to reach us in ways we often do not even notice. Researchers are using MRI scans to explore which areas of the brain light up when we are shown different images, in hopes of being able to recreating this stimulating effect in certain part of the brain in order to excite and influence our purchase selections. There are many images that have become recognized throught history, like the swastika and the peace sign, some are specific to a generation and or an epoch, some span a longer time period or are even reused or rebranded to have different meanings in later generations
The picture of this woman and her child came to symbolize the great depression and the hopeless poverty and difficult life people were leading, it summed it all up in a moments glance and will for many years.
The image below even though it looks natural, was a staged for the picture, it was meant to emote the joy of post war celebrations of having troops back home after WW ll. A classic picture that has become a symbol for many people of that generation. Looking at this picture instantly brings back a flood of emotions at a specific time and place, without having to think logically or analyze any information for people of that era. Many future generations can understand the message as well. Images and pictures bring back eras, feelings and memories quickly inside us.
What images and pictures are important for you?
Drawing, and creating them even if we do not think we are artistic is nurturing and healing for us. Having important images or pictures around us that can give us inspiration, solace, or strength, and as reminders of staying mindful of our intentions, aspirations, and beliefs while staying in our present moment experience are helpful reminders.
Use the power of images to help you set goals for your self and to know what it is that is important in your life. Maybe use them to say sorry in a different, special and unique way. If you are dating or in a relationship using images can be a fast way to connect and communicate with some one, how you are feeling. Share your feelings with pictures, artwork, symbols to those important ones in your life and connect in a fun way that can be uniquely yours.